This year is a very special year for both Stephen and I as we are both getting married this fall (No, not to each other! He’s like my brother!). Any married reader out there understands how planning a wedding practically consumes your life, thus we decided it would make a great blog topic! For some reason Stephen wasn’t super eager to write about weddings, so here it goes.
I’ve been planning my wedding little by little over the last year and a half, and I can tell you that “green” weddings are very “in” right now. Of course so are over the top extravaganzas… anyways! I realized pretty early on that there are ways to make your day more eco-friendly without necessarily making sacrifices and I thought I’d share some of these ideas with you.
Location
Have your wedding and the reception in the same place so guests don’t have to drive to a new location; have it outside during the day to take advantage of natural (and free!) lighting. If possible, hold the wedding in a location close to most of your guests to reduce travel distance.
StationaryThere are TONS of paper products associated with a wedding: the save-the-date, invitation, reply card, direction card, programs, menus, etc. The greenest option is obviously to use the internet for as much as possible (e-vites, websites with all the details, etc.), but unless all of your guests are under 45, you may not be able to reach all of them this way. There are some cool eco-friendly paper products out there including 100% recycled paper products from Twisted Limb Paper or seed paper (meaning you can plant it in the ground and flowers will bloom) from Botanical Paper Works.
The DressOk, so it is probably best economically and environmentally to buy a used dress or use one that is already in the family. If the family member is ok with it, you can alter the dress to fit your personal style. I know, most brides don’t go for that…I sure didn’t. At the very least, try to resell the dress after the wedding, or preserve it so future family members can use it.
DecorationsUse what you have. Anyone who knows me knows that I have a sweet spot in my heart for all things vintage (aka. old and used) which naturally works in my favor when trying to be more eco-friendly. To find decorations for my wedding, I went through my parent’s attic, my grandfather’s shed, etc. to find unique items to personalize my wedding. Not only does this save money, but you’re recycling something and finding a new purpose for it. If you like things that are very “wedding-like,” there is a great website
www.recycledbride.com where brides sell old decorations, jewelry, dresses, etc. Only buy decorations you’ll use (or someone you know will use) after the wedding is over.
FoodThis isn’t as difficult as one would imagine. Find a caterer and a baker that use locally grown food and make sure you have in-season produce.
FlowersYour typical wedding flowers are not as eco-friendly as you might think once they’ve been doused in chemicals. Make centerpieces out of other reusable items, including potted plants that you can take home after the wedding. Some brides are now going against the tradition of carrying flowers, and are carrying bouquets made out of vintage brooches. Gather treasures from your family members and make something meaningful to you that will stay beautiful for years to come. If you decide to go with flowers, make sure you pick an in-season option.
FavorsAs nice as it is to receive a monogrammed frame with a picture of the bride and groom in it, most people are not going to keep the favors they receive at weddings. Give them something they can enjoy (like food!) that won’t go to waste. Personalize it by getting items that the area is known for, like Virginia peanuts, apples from a local orchard or jam from your grandma’s kitchen. Another great idea is to make a charity donation.
The RegistryI know, I know. It is fun to get gifts, but how many crystal vases do you really need? There are at least two great alternatives to just getting a bunch of stuff. Number one, set up a honeymoon registry to have your guests help pay for your vacation. Number two, that charity thing again…have guests donate to charities in your name. You can even specify what charities you would prefer they donate to.